Leadership is a Lesson in Honesty
I have found if you have an honest opinion, people don't like you. Honesty sets you a apart, and leaders who are honest are often shunned by their peers, and consistered old school by younger people. Let me give you an example. I am repeatedly in meetings with Christian leaders who tell the group some story that stretches the truth from reality. Now it all may sound good, it may even have some evangelistic qualities about it, but it's not the truth, it's half truth, and half story telling that is based upon fiction. Sorry, but that is not telling the truth. Truth requires that we confront issues, and not be afraid to address a person or a congregation, or a culture with what God requires of them. Only God can set the boundaries of truth, because He is truth. Where this gets confusing is when we associate truth with legalism, and pass legalism off as truth. Legalism is a private option of truth, or a personal preference rather than God's instruction. People will often associate honesty with judgement or negativism, but neither is correct. If I knew that someone was a thief or dishonest, would you like to know my opinion about that person before you had dealings with them? Or would you prefer a positive spin on his character by telling you a politically correct statement that didn't warn you of the present danger you might be in if you proceed with this person? Do you see what I mean? It's either honesty and truth, or it's deception and lies, and when it comes to turth and honest there is no gray. Once you begin to compromise on truth, you will do so whenever it is convenient for you to serve yourself. Leadership is carving a path where there is no path, and people need leaders who will not compromise with the truth.
Leadership equipped with truth and honesty have the makings of what it means to have integrity. Integrity doesn't shift from it's foundation because of circumstance, it will always present an unwavering viewpoint regardless of the consequences. In religious circles, you don't co-mingle half truths to sell a point of view, or get supporters. You don't shy away from the tough and honest questions because you don't want to risk your reputation on the wrong answer.
You see, I find dishonesty everywhere I go, and it's for that reason I write this blog. I know my point of view may not be popular or mainstream correct, but I try to be as clear and honest. Everyone struggles with this from time to time, and honesty in the hands of people who are loving, forgiving, and full of mercy can be a breathe of fresh air, because they won't use honesty as a weapon to correct.
I hope my honesty will never club you. I hope honesty will always lead you to the one whose truth makes us more honest, and truthful. It is His Word where we will always keep ourselves refreshed in the things that will keep us away from compromise and dishonesty.
Always trying to keep it honest and truthful...K
For those of you who want honesty at it's best, honesty that is probing to the soul, then take a few minutes and watch this clip from the late David Wilkerson.
Larry Kutzler
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